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Tuesday, July 21, 2009

"Just Say It!"

Communication is not the issue. It is the non-existent communication that is the issue. You see, when you are effectively communicating, verbiage or other acts of communication are going back and forth. The non-existent communication is when you "think" that the person or people that are supposed to know you and your thoughts so well are extracting what you would "like" to communicate from your thought process to theirs.

But that cloud of non-existent communication never transfers or transmits anything but silent thoughts.

It matters not that you think that the other person should know what's on your mind. If you have not told them, then you have effectively chosen to "not" communicate and that is not their fault.

Oft times we use the "Breakdown in Communication" label to describe our non-existent communication. But in order to truly understand what is going on, we should label it exactly what it is and work towards correcting the problem and not relabeling it and passing it off as a "Breakdown."

Let there be zero ambiguity about what you want, what you need, how you feel, how you do not feel, who you are and who you are not!

So long as you keep your communication "Tuned Up," there should never be a "Breakdown."

If you want something,
Need anything,
Feel a certain way,
Have to express yourself,
Describe your intentions
Or communicate,

"Just Say It!"

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!
Corey

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