Smile And Love Always!

Friday, October 28, 2011

"The Glue"

Another opportunity to say thank You for the things done and seen and for the covering grace and mercy for all of the things done and unseen.

You have not made it this far, by car. Modern day methods and modes of transportation are not applicable when God is commandeering your destination.

Where one needs to go and what one needs to do will undoubtedly vary and differ from you. But when it is time to put it all together, Jesus is "The Glue."

"The Glue," that holds it together, until God makes it better!

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

"Upon Me"

Abundantly aware of the certainty of death, my perpetual mode is the celebration in the abundance of Life.

The only guarantee is the exact moment in which my lungs inhale and exhale Life, in the form of air.

My path had been constructed long before my feet even touched the ground. It is impossible to fathom having breath, yet not uttering a sound. How profound it is to do what needs to be, despite the adversity, with the help of the Heavenly, that deserves all of the glory.

To be continued not, when opportunity dictates that the shot, is "Upon Me."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

"Green Thumb of Love"

Every step that you take brings you closer to the finish line of the current chapter of your Life that you are in.

Do not ever become content in the current chapter, for the ending of one and the beginning of the next is closer than you think, whether or not you decide to turn the page or not.

Forbid stagnancy from taking root within the garden that God has planted for you.

Use the current chapter to sew the seeds of the succeeding chapters irrespective of whether the beneficiary is you or not.

Flourish, then replenish, sew more seeds to flourish again.

Water your garden with the same "Green Thumb of Love" that was used when it was first created for you.

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Monday, October 24, 2011

"So, Remain!"

Positive thoughts lead to positive actions. Talk less, even not. Perfect your arch and take your best shot!

The parallel's of verbiage that encourage you to live and conduct Life as such shall always remain in touch with one another until the brotherly Love has been realized and the homegrown animosity is no longer institutionalized.

Until then, your positive thoughts lead to your positive actions. Talk less, even not. Perfect your arch and take your best shot!

Remaining encouraged is more important than being encouraged. It is always easier to get, just much harder to keep. "So, Remain!"

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

"There is"

There is no bigger success story than the one that you author.

There is no greater passion than the one that exists within you.

There is no brighter star than the one that emanates from your inner being.

There is no excuse should you never offer and accept one to begin with.

There is no great distance when everyday is marked by the steps that you have taken to bring you closer.

There is no greater failure than the success story that you refuse to author.

There is no greater Love outside of the Love of Christ that you choose to demonstrate through your Faith.

To God be the glory. Since He was...."There Is."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

"Prop Us Up"

The past is meant to "Prop Us Up" so that we can sit higher than the problems of our past, being able to SEE beyond them, understanding and learning FROM them, how they brought us TO our present, in preparation FOR our future.

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Thursday, October 06, 2011

Steve Jobs, "A Change that Starts with Me"

Steve Jobs was an incredible man, an impeccable visionary and an amazing human being. Humility seeped from his pores as he changed the landscape of how we live our lives and how we interact with each other within our lives.

As the outpouring of Love, admiration and respect came thundering in, it instantly reminded me of the same type of adoration that followed another release from this great visionary, when all you had to do was tune in or walk by the throngs that were in line to consume not only a pretty cool, sleek looking gadget or device, but an investment in a brand that instantly put you in mind of circular frames, a mock turtleneck, jeans and sneakers.

You know sometimes we do not like what we are in receipt of because of the way that "he or she" is packaged. But someone like Steve Jobs blew that shortsightedness right out of the water!

With everything that Mr. Steve Jobs accomplished, he left us with yet another indelible gem. As you witness the outpouring of Love, admiration and respect, pay very close attention to the humility that exuded from such a pioneer who was well aware of his contributions to Life. And within every instance in Life, he demonstrated the existence of opportunity.

The passing of Mr. Steve Jobs made me personally realize the opportunity to do and be something in Life that would garner the same type of all around Love, not because of "me" but because of the contributions to Life that come "through" me. And if the type of Life that I lead is not on the right track or the correct path that would yield such results, then it is time for change. "A Change that Starts with Me."

In his words...
On Work
"You've got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don't settle."

On Death
"If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today? And whenever the answer has been "No" for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something."
– Stanford Commencement Speech 2005

Thank you Mr. Steve Jobs! It was not just about what you created in your Life, but how you lived your Life and positively impacted the lives of others that I shall always remember.

And that is a brand that I will happily, cheerfully and always be willing to invest in!

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Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Wednesday, October 05, 2011

"I Thank Adversity for Bringing Me Closer to My Heavenly"

When faced with adversity, adversity is faced with my Faith and the realization that within the revelation of the ensuing chain of events, no link is weaker than the next, therefore subsequent words and actions befall the same fate, by way of the demonstrated Faith within the text.

Christ allows me to be weakened, so that HE can make me strong, in HIM! If HIS strength or my strength THROUGH HIM are representative of said weakest link, then such a link fails to exist within the realm of man's possibility by way of adversity, in the transparent and brilliant presence of Christ's infinite abilities.

"I Thank Adversity for Bringing Me Closer to My Heavenly."

But God, when the very forces that negatively rise up against you are positively used by your very Faith in Christ, demonstrative of the sheer ability of Christ to use whomever and whatever to carry out the will of the Father. But, God!

So, "I Thank Adversity for Bringing Me Closer to My Heavenly."

My Savior used "you" in order to bring "me" even closer, to HIM!

But, God!

Therefore, "I Thank Adversity for Bringing Me Closer to My Heavenly!"

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Monday, October 03, 2011

"Positively True, Negatively False"

Negativity spikes my motivational drive to ascend to higher heights doing the complete opposite of the direct intentions of negativity's first and only thoughts.

Negativity has no space nor place in the presence of positivity.

Negativity will always be dressed up with absolutely nowhere to go, hence its blatant and obvious nomadic existence.

Positivity implores the ones that are so inclined to do the right thing, even if the right thing means taking an "L" by way of popular opinion or general consensus.

Positivity is the leader that negativity habitually follows trying to mimic the genuine authenticity of positivity's actions in an attempt to negatively influence positivity.

Negativity might be dressed up as such, but positivity knows exactly where it is going.

Positivity does not follow negativity!

Negativity will always be lost trying to follow and keep up with the genuiness and Loving affection of positivity.

Positivity needs not explain itself, while that is all negativity ever does.

"Positively True, Negatively False."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Friday, September 30, 2011

"What Matters Most"

I remember being a young lad trying so hard to figure out word problems. Within those very word problems were "additional" verbiage that neither added nor subtracted any viable value to the word problem itself. By design, its intentions were to intentionally throw you off and distract you from solving the problem itself.

Although the distraction within the word problem was not meant to permanently distract you, rather to build within you a better, sturdier resistance to the "additional" things that would have you believe that "they or it" offer value to a situation when in all actuality, they offer anything but.

Be not distracted by peripheral things that shall always remain on the perimeter, to never occupy the nucleus and centerpiece of you.

The heart of the matter shall always be "What Matters Most," nothing else.

Glory Be To God!

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

"Stay Focused"

Distractions are many aplenty. Some are, while others are not so friendly. But it matters not their disposition so long as their intentions do not hinder, distract, impose or impede upon your purposed position.

Allow your Faith to keep you on track, your actions to keep you grounded and lift not one finger or utter one word that is not deserving by way of the solution if the arrival is demonstrative of the problem.

Do not lose sight, but remain strong despite the feeble attempts to thwart God's might, that is deeply rooted within you, in every struggle and in every fight.

Pray more than what you think that you're supposed to.

"Stay Focused," unmoved, unwavered and always remain true.

When everything appears to be falling apart, YOU become the glue.

YOU hold it together, until God makes it better!

"Stay Focused!"

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Friday, September 23, 2011

"Successfully Lived Through It"

Allow your desire to positively inspire the fire that burns so bright and magnificently in, all around and throughout "your" vicinity.

Allow the illumination to display God's creation within you, that shall subsequently inspire the desire within others to burn in a similar or like capacity, influencing them to live and be free, in, all around and throughout "their" vicinity.

Be who you want!

Do what you can't!

Expose your closed!

Move your immovable!

Replenish the diminished!

Rip the doors off the hinges of the compartmentalized!

Shatter the windows that hinder the natural light and the truth from coming in!

Dispel the myth by no longer contributing to it.

Your future was created by a past and you having "Successfully Lived Through It."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

"His Tree"

In the face of adversity, stand boldly and bravely right next to, claiming and proclaiming your victory.

Do not allow the adversary to claim it on your behalf. I said on "your" behalf because it is not theirs to rightfully claim to begin with, rather yours that you allow them to claim in your absence.

The very absence from victory lane that has already co-signed your presence long before you even thought that you had the right type of credit, way before you realized that you were actually already worthy.

Adversity is just God's opportunity to permanently display the very reason why He is ALWAYS worthy!

Worthy is He and Blessed are we, should our apples not fall too far from "His Tree."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Monday, September 19, 2011

"That First Step"

Missteps and mishaps do not mean that you are forever trapped. We live and learn and continue to live so that we may continue to learn. We can further appreciate it once it has been earned.

We are not doomed by our mistakes, but Blessed in rectifying them in the due process of learning from them.

What we have gone through is synonymous with what we have grown through as we speak to our experiences, thus allowing them to speak through us, so that they may reach others, exactly where they are.

The rest of your Life is contingent upon "That First Step," in route to the passion within your purpose that will always lead you to unprecedented action.

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Thursday, September 15, 2011

"Me To Be"

Lord, I will do what You need me to do, so that I can be who You need "Me To Be."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Monday, September 12, 2011

"Be Not Dismayed"

Problems will surely mount, but they do not discount nor take into account the strength of God to lift us up out of our predicaments and nestle us right into our inheritance.

Nothing can kill, steal or destroy,
My happiness and joy,
Raised into that man all the way from that of a little boy.

It matters not who or what comes your way. Just give God your Faith, receive the victory and "Be Not Dismayed."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!


All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Thursday, September 08, 2011

"Seething"

Certain people are still SEETHING at the fact that "he" is "our" President!  Surprised we should not be. Prepared we ought to be.  God is still good in the land and irrespective of "their" behavior, "we" stand!

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

"All Over Again"

If a difference needs to be made, then allow me to be the first to step up and make it. It humbles my soul, thus granting and invoking the Spirit within to a new sense of urgency, to do it "All Over Again."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Wednesday, September 07, 2011

"Dumb Down"

Do not ever settle! Settling compels you to "Dumb Down," so as to not outshine what you have settled for.

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Thursday, September 01, 2011

"Crossing the Serengeti"

Every year the incredible Wildebeest migration crossing the Serengeti's treacherous Mara River is a spectacle in which to behold. An enormous amount of zebras and gazelles accompany the Wildebeest on this biannual pilgrimage as they migrate in search of optimum grazing in the form of rain ripened grass and drinking water to accommodate the size of the migrating participants into Kenya's Masai Mara.

If you have ever watched it unfold, you can FEEL the enormity of the migration and can appreciate the magnitude of the determination of the animals to take this journey, irrespective of the anonymous predators along the way that are patiently lying in wait for their suspecting, not unsuspecting, prey. But they forge ahead anyway, for what awaits them is not as important as the journey that they need to take, the one in which they shall make despite what is hidden along the path.

The things that we stand to learn once we tune in to something that can actually educate us, thus adding value to our equation, identity and composition.

The willingness to understand that the journey that we all travel upon may not be physically located in the Serengeti, but the things that await us are never more important than the journey itself.

The predators are actually not so anonymous, due to the rather simple fact that the prey already suspects their presence in the midst, to begin with.

But in order to get to what has already been purposed for you, sometimes we have to travel through our own versions of the Mara River, in our own personal Serengeti, to our very own Masai Mara.

Tuned in to our pilgrimage, whatever awaits us along our journey is designed to reach us where we are and to teach us where we need to be.

You do not need to become a predator in order to prevent falling prey. You just need to outwit your predator and live to see another day.

Something that I learned as I tuned in to witness Life, as it was "Crossing the Serengeti."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!


All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Monday, August 29, 2011

"The Right Punctuation to My Story"

As I draw closer to the realization of my destiny, I am overwhelmed with emotion, feeling the presence of God in everything that I do. Once upon a time, I overlooked His presence and thought that He was absent. But it was "I" and my negligence that overlooked His presence and thought that He was absent.

Compassion is what has been extended to me to afford me a better view of said destiny, with the knowledge that everything that has ever surrounded me has subsequently groomed me, "To Be."

Irrespective of who or what it was, certain things were and are allowed to happen, thus strengthening and equipping me with the future wherewithal to recognize them, align my defense mechanism in the form of additional Prayer and turning them over to my source of strength and protection, so that He may deal with them and/or it accordingly.

Growth has never been an option for Corey. It has always been a rudimentary necessity that has coupled itself with the fundamentals that compose themselves over the instrumental tracks to my Life.

I thank my Savior for saving me when "I" neglected me.

I thank my Savior for directing me when "I" lost me and my way.

I thank my Savior for Loving me, thus showing me the importance of Loving other than me.

I thank my Savior for forgiving me, thus showing me the importance of forgiving other than me.

I thank my Savior for all that has happened in my Life, permitted or otherwise, that has groomed me to be all of what my destiny has in store for me.

Believe not my words if my actions are in absentia. For you will always see what I have done before you have heard about what I have done. I seek not the glory, just "The Right Punctuation to My Story."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Thursday, August 25, 2011

"My Tie"

Some days I match up "My Tie" with my shirt and think to myself, "YES! You've never matched this pair up before. Its gonna look GOOD!" And then I step outside into the natural light only to find out that what looked good inside does not necessarily look good outside...of the natural light.

Sometimes we hit the nail right on top of its head and other times, we simply miss.

Whenever I used to step out into the natural light to find out that "I will definitely be ticketed by the fashion police today," I used to hurry back indoors to correct my fashion faux pas. Well, that was then...

And now when I step out into the natural light and think that I might possibly be re-ticketed, I continue on my way with the thought of perfection getting farther and farther away as I gravitate towards what awaits me for that day.

You see it matters not what I look like. It matters what my heart acts like.

Once I commit myself to the exterior of my residence, I now understand that some days I will feel how I look and other days I will look how I feel. In other words, some days are better than others, but they are days that we have been Blessed to bare witness to, nonetheless. And subsequently, we have yet another opportunity...

So, as I matched up "My Tie" today, I allowed my heart to lead the way, irrespective of the ticket that I may or may not receive, so long as what I do is pleasing in His eyes and not that of the one administering the tickets.

Afterall, they have a certain quota to meet, so how relevant are the things that emanate from their lips in the form of their opinions? "His" opinion is what we should all be concerned with.

Pardon me, I need to fix "My Tie."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

"Clarity"

Oft times it behooves you to offer and provide "Clarity" to what some might deem ambiguous or something that might be perceived as "relative to you." Well, this is one of those times.


You see as a writer, I am always in search of inspiration so that I may otherwise turn right back around and inspire someone else that might "growing" through some things in their Life.


But in order to BE an inspiration, sometimes you need to absorb what is going on so that you can adequately translate that information to others in the form of inspiration.


As I listen to, take in and absorb stories that so many people are "growing through," it is quite humbling to hear and become acquainted with a plethora of stories that have nothing to do with you directly, but ultimately wind up impacting your Life indirectly and sometimes directly, due to the nature of their relationship with you. This could be a neighbor, a co-worker, a friend, a family member, or anyone of the sort.


But, you see therein the seeds of ambiguity can be found, if the watering of information do not sprout the perceived results. It can be quite tricky if one is to believe that everything ever written is personal to or relative to, the writer. In my case, that is not the case.


God is good and has been better to me than I have been to myself. But, that is God, so surprised I am not. I know what my Life’s purpose is and I “purposely” live within those parameters so as to use what I believe to be my gift to positively influence the lives of others. But, you see, not everyone is living on easy street. Not everyone is happy. Not everyone is in Love. And everyone is not doing ok, hence the varied subjects that I address within my Blogs.


It pains my heart to know that so many people are hurt, hurting and have not the faintest clue as to what to do or where to go. Rev. Run once said that, “hurt people, hurt people.” I recognize those people because I was once one of them. Shame on me if I were to recognize the hurt in people, and do nothing with it by way of my gift, as a conduit to something better, irrespective of what they might be “growing through.”


Within my Blogs and the things that I write about, there is a lot of Love, a lot of hope, a lot of God, a lot of promise, a lot of truth and a lot of anything else that you can think of. Kind of like looking out of your window, walking around in the mall, canvassing the lawn at your favorite outdoor concert venue, in Church or even within your own home. Marinate on that for a minute.


God knows that I wish that I could write about happiness all of the time because that is what I encountered all of the time. But that is not the case. And even though that is not the case, there is always a silver lining in every cloud. And that is something that I have made numerous references to throughout my Blogs. My purpose is to inspire others to subscribe to something better.


I used to have a British Literature teacher that once publicly professed her belief that she thought “there was such thing as a stupid question.” I begged to differ then and many years later, I still do. If you do not know, then simply ask. God is good and God knows that Corey doesn’t know it all. But I ask God for “Clarity” to avoid the temptation of “leaning on my own understanding” when I should actually “lean NOT on my own understanding.”


I am so humbled, honored and Blessed to have more readers of “All the Best, All the Time” than I will probably ever know. Personally, I do not believe in coincidences and I am privileged at this opportunity to be able to offer and provide “Clarity” to what some might deem as ambiguous or something that might be perceived as "relative to you,” in this case me, Corey.


I live a very transparent Life. People will not be surprised at what they find out about me. My guardian angel, My Mother is watching over my every move and I shall disappoint her not. Speaking of which, please allow me to share some of that transparency with you. “For Once In My Life: A Mother’s Love: Ramona’s Story of Inspiration” is the book that I have written that honors the woman that has always been my source of inspiration throughout my Life and even in her passing. More to come on Mother’s book...Smile.


I have been afforded things in my Life that I could not have been able to otherwise afford and I am grateful for said things. The same things that I shall always be willing to impart to others that might be hurting. One day they too will recognize someone else is hurting because Rev. Run was right when he said that “hurt people, hurt people.” They too will be compelled and inspired to make a difference the same exact way that a difference was made in their lives. Is God not the greatest! No question mark needed, since that was not a question at all.


In closing, as my many “All the Best, All the Time” readers tune in to read my Blogs, I implore you to think bigger than big and realize that there is a bigger than big difference in playing chess as opposed to simply playing checkers. I used to be a checker player when I tried to live this Life without God. But Glory be to God, that I am now learning to play and getting better at playing Chess.



One Blog at a time!

One day at a time!

And God all of the time!


Do not ever be afraid to engage someone if the Spirit so moves you to do so. If it is not “Clarity” that you may need, it may be “support” that they need. Remember, I do not believe in coincidences. I believe that everything happens for a reason and that silver lining shall be revealed as soon as we make the effort to dispel the silliness of there being such a thing as a stupid question. If you don’t know, who or what is really stupid? The question or you for not asking the question? And THAT is why, I do not support the notion that such a question exists. Just simply ask and worry not about who else might already know the answer because if you do not know the answer, then that is one person too many.


I am honored,

I am humbled,

I am grateful to you,

I am grateful for you,

And I Love you without the need of having laid eyes upon you.


Glory be to God!


I need to go practice my Chess! The silver lining in this cloud provided me the same “Clarity” that I Pray I have successfully offered and provided to you.


God Bless You!


Smile and Love Always! I truly wish you, “All the Best, All the Time!”


Corey A. Ford

"It Starts With You"

It is imperative for you to believe that you deserve better in order for you to effectively receive better. For better can already be in your midst, but if your belief is anything but, your results will also be anything but.

Sometimes people treat themselves less than, yet they expect others to treat them greater than. In all actuality, how people treat you is similar if not identical to how you treat you. If you don't Love or believe in you, then why should or would you expect people to Love and believe in you? And do not underestimate the visibility of how you feel about you. Believe it or not, it is transparent.

You deserve to be Loved, but you must first Love you. For if you do not Love you, you will never be able to appreciate the Love that someone else has for you. Your belief system starts with and has everything to do with you. Although someone else can Love and believe in you, it will only go as far and last as long as you Love and believe in yourself.

Do not rely on someone else to feel a certain way about you should you not echo the same sentiments about yourself. If you want Love, then start Loving yourself. If you want someone to believe in you, then start believing in yourself.

Whether Love, belief or any and everything else that Life has to offer, recognize the fact, that "It Starts With You."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Monday, August 22, 2011

"Your New"

I have arrived to another glorious day, irrespective of what lies before me, since I am abundantly aware of Who, stands behind me.

Even with only one ticket in hand, one way or round trip, it is never a trip that is taken alone, the King on the throne, my foundation, my backbone!

It matters not the words that are uttered or spat in your direction. Heavenly Father I come to You and I stand in Your shadow of protection.

Your goals, my goals, belong to you, belong to me. The price of talk is cheap, especially when the price to live is free.

Share your dreams, goals and ambition with a chosen select few. And don't be too surprised when the old is frowning upon "Your New."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Thursday, August 18, 2011

"Differentiate You"

My Mother used to ALWAYS tell me, "you're judged by the company that you keep, Corey."

"But Mom, I'm not doing anything!"

"Corey, you're judged by the company that you keep, son!"

Nuff said!

With that said, how and where do we begin to draw the line of where "they" end and "we" begin?

With that said, how do we bridge the gap of what "they" do as opposed to what "we" do?

Bridge? Perhaps that is exactly where we detonate the connection between what "they" think, say and do, as opposed to what "we" think, say and do?

From afar, are there any identifying markers or actions that "Differentiate You" so that you are NOT judged by the company that you keep?

Objectively, if the difference cannot be made, then it is incumbent upon you to make the difference to "Differentiate You" from "them."

Momma was so right! "Corey, you are judged by the company that you keep, son!"

I was listening to you Momma! I'm still recalling and reciting every word of encouragement and wisdom that you EVER imparted to me.

Glory Be To GOD that I was ever so Blessed to call you MY Mother!

How do you "Differentiate You" from the rest, the company that you keep?

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

"The Best That Life Has to Offer"

Externally, I mimic the thoughts of my internal happiness and know that since imitation is the best form of flattery, may my actions speak into existence the happiness that resides within me, compelling me to envy myself in an attempt to want it for myself and achieve similar or like results for myself.

Life is good,
God is better,
And I shall continue to get better at getting better by way of forgiveness and Love because "Love Matters."

I want more of what is important and less of what is not, so that I can create a demonstration to my Life's presentation as an example of God's perfection by way of His Heavenly direction.

If I want some of the best that Life has to offer, then I need to separate myself from what is not best for me. Oft times that means severing the ties that bind you, even though your thought process convinced you that to be bound meant to be closer to. In all actuality, no, it was designed to keep you from...everything that you were and are purposed to be.

I now see that God has "The Best That Life Has to Offer," and it is all for me (Your Name), purposely!

Glory Be To God!

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Thursday, August 11, 2011

"Synonymous"

Once upon a time I thought that I did not deserve what I am now in receipt of. But glory be to God that what I once thought, was contrary to what God already knew.

How unfortunate, we prosecute ourselves by way of judge and jury, convicting and condemning ourselves and in the same breath asking and praying for forgiveness of and for the same things that we do not forgive ourselves for.

Why do we ask God to forgive us when we do not forgive us?

Oh, the importance of forgiveness, that double-edged sword that cuts both ways should we never get a handle of forgiveness on either end, for starters.

But glory be to God, that what we THINK and what He KNOWS are not "Synonymous."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Wednesday, August 03, 2011

"I Owe Me"

I have strategically and deliberately, reinvented me. One day I decided that I did not like what I saw and was compelled to change my situation as opposed to blaming me on my situation.

Such a cop out when all I had to do was opt out of the past and reinvent myself in order to live in the present so that I could set myself up to do God's work in my near future.

Humbling oneself at the request of yourself so that your constructive criticism is that of yourself! I did just that. I need not look without when I knew all that I needed to do from within.

Forever determined to make a difference, my difference had to be determined forever.

No longer waging my salvation in order to support the continuation of my detrimental situation.

Therefore, I spoke to my reflection, made the modifications, adjustments and corrections and I support the infinite possibility, be it high level or extreme granularity.

Now I like what I see and I Love who and what I am. I couldn't have asked me for a better me, especially since the change had to first start with me.

But I had to stomach myself in order to reinvent myself, hence the reason why I first had to humble myself. Having purged out the toxins that once polluted my Spirit, detoxification was the best therapy on my way to "Happy Me." Giving, the most healthiest ingredient for Life. Now I don't charge myself for Love, because I know that Love is free. I deserve nothing less, because "I Owe Me."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Friday, July 29, 2011

"Depths Of My Heart"

I empty my heart.

I turn it inside out and make sure that I have emptied my heart.

I lay my heart flat so that it may regenerate and reclaim the form of its natural state, thus allowing God the opportunity to replenish it, wholeheartedly.

I give of myself so that He may redeposit within me, thus allowing Him the opportunity to redeem me, unequivocally.

I lose, not necessarily intentionally, but I welcome the lesson that it subsequently teaches me, as I continue to strive to get better at getting better, unimaginably.

These are the parts that compose the "Depths Of My Heart," which make me whole again.

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Friday, July 22, 2011

"Brand New Life"

God has always been good to me. And now it is time for me to be good to me.

"Brand New Life"

With the caveat being that I can never be as good to me as God has been good to me.

"Brand New Life"

The glory for my story resides with the author of my Life that has bestowed countless chapters of grace and mercy that still sustain me.

"Brand New Life"

I am who I want to be within the destiny that He has already slotted for me. Glory be!

"Brand New Life"

My past starts today, in my "Brand New Life."

Yesterday is light years away, from my "Brand New Life."

It is time to breathe Life, into your "Brand New Life."

When you see me, may you see Him IN me, in my "Brand New Life."

Take your first breath in your "Brand New Life" and breathe!

Thank You Jesus!!

Thank You for my "Brand New Life!"

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Friday, July 08, 2011

"Deeply Rooted in Happiness"

They are not always going to be happy for you, but that will not be your problem.

Their Smiles may be as authentic as a Van Gogh reprint, while the masterpiece is nestled away, hiding in plain sight, to their chagrin and much to your own delight.

But this journey is not for the faint of heart that display zero markings of their presence, past, present and probably not the future.

Uprooted to only be replanted in better soil, more sustainable nutrients for a Life that refuses to accept limited growth as an option, but devours the opportunities within the options that are before them.

I have been unhappy within my Life. But now that I know what this happiness is all about, I shall continue to dig within the sacred ground of happiness until I have reached the core, that only compels me to dig even more, giving of myself to obtain, even more.

I fertilize the earth by giving back all that it has given unto me, no longer paying for happiness after realizing that it has always been free.

I may be hard to get to, but I'm easy to find, exactly where I have been Blessed. I have been uprooted and replanted and now I am "Deeply Rooted in Happiness."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Thursday, July 07, 2011

"Therefore, I Do!"

The Love that you have within your heart will not be accepted by everyone. It just means that whomever was NOT the one. But never attempt or cease the Love within your heart from being shared with whomever might indeed BE the one.

I have Loved the one that I thought Loved me.

I have Loved the one that I thought was meant to be.

I have Loved the one that set my heart free.

But at the end of the day it is all for naught, if I don't "Love Me" (http://allthebestallthetime.blogspot.com/2011/04/love-me.html).

"Therefore, I do!"

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

"A Quiet Strength"

Silently, I traverse on this journey, exploring the possibilities, creating opportunities and doing so, happily.

Should my Smile be my umbrella, then bring on the rain! The target matters not when Love is my BEST shot!

I aim at success and fall short of nothing less in any capacity due to my never ending insatiable appetite to solidify, by working towards, thus creating my legacy.

Defeat me not when my contents are composed of the attributes of victory.

Exploit my heart so long as you represent it accurately.

No need to justify your actions when you habitually do the right thing.

When you are in the presence of Love, you will depart with what Love imparts, irrespective of what you bring.

Come in with your baggage, leave with your luggage and a pocket full of forgiveness.

Forgive so that you can be forgiven and live Life not in loneliness.

But, Happiness abound, perpetual joy that can ALWAYS be found, sans the effort of having to search.

"A Quiet Strength" is my foundation in which Corey is forever perched.

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Monday, June 20, 2011

"Immaculate Form of Love"

I thought that I was done running the race until I got to the finish line to only discover that the finish line is the starting point for the next race, the next chapter.

What future historical context can I create today, that will be revealed tomorrow, and will live on long after my demise and forevermore?

Whatever I create as of late, teeters on the borderline of GREAT, since greater is HE that is in you, than he that is in the world. Right?

GREAT has nothing to do with any single, humanly effort, but a collective Heavenly understanding that what is done is not for you, but for an existence that extends to the far reaches that we are not humanly capable of extending ourselves to, hence the Heavenly intervention.

The same intervention that starts and ends with the understanding that it always has been and always will be about what we have that we should always extend ourselves to, not only for ourselves and on behalf of ourselves, but to others, in the most "Immaculate Form of Love."

On to the next race and the next chapter. I'll see you at Love's finish line, if there is one. Smile.

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Friday, June 17, 2011

"Now Empty"

The indiscretions of my past were all placed in a box with my name written on it. One by one, I have gone through the laundry list of things that I needed to address, resolve, fix, make better and even complete in the form of do overs.

Upon acknowledgment of the items in Corey's box, in advance I Prayed for clarity and understanding as I embarked upon the sometimes daunting task of putting myself on blast to rectify and remedy ALL of the things of and about my past.

It is easy for you to put someone else on blast and probably just as easy for others that put you on blast. But try doing it to yourself in an attempt to better yourself.

Humble pie is as bitter as it sounds! And a tall glass of humility, no ice, is the only beverage in which to wash it down.

Upon completion and resolution of each of those items, I exposed myself, understood myself in a better attempt to understand myself, asked GOD to forgive me, asked whomever I wronged for their forgiveness and lastly, I forgave myself so that I could effectively move on with the rest of my Life.

I handled each item with the utmost respect that it so deserved because although I did not hear before, there is no misunderstanding or playing ignorant to GOD's Word.

Perhaps me getting it wrong was the fuel that I needed in order to inspire others to get it right. Use me GOD!!!

Having spent the last few years cleaning out the closet that once housed Corey's box, I have happily shred each and every one of those artifacts that used to define me that were once in that box.

You see my heart has been changed, my Life redefined. I no longer straddle the fence or tread on that thin line.

Nothing contrary to the Love of GOD shall successfully captivate my attention in order to tempt me. For it was through the Love of GOD, that I was able to work through it all and my box is "Now Empty."

Glory Be To GOD!

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

"It Carries Me"

After hate has used you and all of your energy up, it so rudely drops you off wherever it no longer needs you, so that it can pick up the next "suspecting" person that is all too anxious to allow hate to use them in order to spew its short term mediocrity across the lay of the land in long term hopes of enduring in the same or like capacity as only Love can.

Too much of the time being used by hate is not "unsuspecting" and much sooner than later the facade of Love that hate has for us is revealed and we begin to embark upon a campaign of forgiveness in hopes that the damage is not irreparable.

But the Love of GOD which knows no hate and resides within the heart of Truth shall always speak nothing but the Truth to a heart that is so compelled to allow the remolding and reshaping of its existence so that it may be an example and demonstration of the one thing that hate can do absolutely nothing with. And that is Love.

Hate will wear you out and weigh you down. But Love! "It Carries Me."

So prop yourself up and release hate before it so rudely releases you! I conquered hate so that I could master Love. Now allow Love to carry you.

Smile.

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Thursday, June 16, 2011

"Love So Amazing"

I left well before I ever arrived, hence the reason why you thought I was never there.

I could not allow the grass to grow underneath my feet, so I had to keep moving IN Love and not habitually AROUND Love.

I concur with Love in all of its glory and salute the humility that is now my story.

I respect you as if you were my Mother and shall never betray nor replace you in lieu of another. I've learned my lesson and right here is where I find you as part of my continued Blessings.

I Loved you well before I ever had an inkling or a clue as to your power and what you can ultimately do.

I simply Love you for being "you," that "Love So Amazing," embroidered in Truth.

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

"You Can Smell The Love"

What an absolute Blessing it is to be able to share in the Love that composes my surroundings and is deeply rooted in my foundation.

Although archaeological efforts had to unearth what Love knew was already there having been previously present, I am proud and humbled to be able to live Life in utter transparency, Loving harmony, complete honesty and happily, ever after.

My wife knows my heart for my heart too was unearthed as a gift in return for her Loving ways that received anything but, once upon a time.

My Life has been transformed through my actions alone and my words serve only as a summary and testimony to the course of actions that directed my actions up to and including a Blog, any Blog, that I have written.

It is easy to see, hear, taste and even touch the Love. But it is within another hemisphere that you would have to exist so that "You Can Smell The Love" before you even step foot into the home that shares in the Love that composes the surroundings that are deeply rooted within Love's foundation.


It is good to be home, where "You Can Smell The Love."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Sunday, June 12, 2011

"L.O.V.E."

I fell in "L.O.V.E." with you as soon as the availability within my heart finally started to show some resemblance of vacancy. Rather selfish of me to think that there was no room for "L.O.V.E." when "L.O.V.E." clearly always made room for me.

But you Love and learn as you live and learn, continuously.

What used to occupy the vacancy was none other than complacency. Moving targets are much harder to hit and require meticulous precision. So I started moving IN "L.O.V.E." not in an attempt to avoid it, but to not be susceptible to the perpetrators OF it.

I find myself getting along much better with "L.O.V.E." as I understand it more. I am "getting better at getting better" with and in "L.O.V.E."

I write it better.
I spell it better.
I pronounce it better.
I announce it better.
I interpret it better.
I feel it better.
I speak the language of "L.O.V.E." better.
I do it better!

It is safe to say that "L.O.V.E." has made M.E. better.

Glory be for "L.O.V.E."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Thursday, June 09, 2011

"I First Loved You When"

Whenever the opportunity presents itself to reveal of itself the single most important attribute that so compliments the existence of Life and our participation in it, I jump.

Allow me to leap, Faith and all, satisfying the request of my presence, standing right next to Love, at its beck and call.

You see, in order for me to "learn" FROM Thee, it cannot be ABOUT me. Not at all.

I give of myself in order to better myself and properly reflect the Love that permeates my surroundings, that now takes up permanent residence within my home.

Whenever I think, speak and author about Love, it is a flattering attempt to accomplish what the LORD needs not "attempt" since everything about HIM "IS."

I shall spend my Life perfecting the art of Love, knowing that my attempts will not mean a mastery of, but will garner me a better appreciation, because.

What better way to spend my time than learning from within the confines of Truth and Love?

Truth.
Love.
I will ALWAYS Love you because "I First Loved You When."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Wednesday, June 08, 2011

"Compel Yourself to Expel All That is Within You"

I am compelled to expel all that is within me.

The good, Lovingly.
The bad, intentionally.
My Faith, feverishly.

I am purposed to absorb my experiences and wring them out in the sink of Life, not necessarily for the vicarious aspects of living, but for the intentional aspects of giving.

The Love within my heart bares all and plays no part within the realm of mediocrity, hence the perceived notion that the lack of interest is due to heightened immaturity.

You can give what you do not receive, but eventually you will need to receive what it is that you give, as your heart is so compelled to expel all that is within you. For you cannot give away nothing in the form of depleted resources, expecting everything in the form of unlimited choices.

"Compel Yourself to Expel All That is Within You."

Open yourself up to give and receive, Love. For your heart will compel your mouth to speak whatever there is on the inside. Until then, you Smile, awaiting the arrival of the moment to "Compel Yourself to Expel All That is Within You."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Tuesday, June 07, 2011

"Void Of Any Ambiguity"

Let me be perfectly honest and crystal clear in my integrity. How I feel about you is the world's worst kept secret. You cannot hide what is too big to ever be concealed. You cannot reveal what was too big to ever be hidden. To be perfectly honest, with you, I have always been smitten.

The origins no longer matter within a world that consists of only chatter, so long as the latter does not negatively influence a Love that needs not to be convinced.

My adamance with Love has everything to do with the fact that GOD, is Love.

With absolute certainty, in complete transparency and utter vulnerability, my feelings for you are forever, "Void of Any Ambiguity."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Monday, June 06, 2011

"Until My Last Breath"

I have not happened upon a better way to spend my time than with the heart of the woman whose heart was purposed to be with mine.

I long for the day when your distance from me is just an arm's length away.

I circulate the flow of Love in the same manner that my heart circulates the flow of blood..."Until My Last Breath."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Friday, June 03, 2011

"I Am Getting BETTER At Getting BETTER."

She walked in the door and her Smile said it all. I knew right then and there, that I would be able to "Trust and Fall" (http://allthebestallthetime.blogspot.com/2011/06/trust-and-fall.html).

The chemistry was impeccable and has yet to cease to amaze me. Focusing in on the goal to continue the same Smile, initially.

I do exactly what it is that I am supposed to do and hang out with Love as if there is no curfew. The things that we would do over again, had the wherewithal been with us and we considered it to be a friend.

Should I take out a full page ad, in the romantic form of a Love letter? Or declare my intentions by way of my actions, that "I Am Getting BETTER At Getting BETTER."

The latter always fares better because the former didn't know any better.

Love was there, but I didn't see it.

Love was talking to me, but I didn't hear it.

Love kept showing up, even when I was absent.

Love Loved me so much that it knew one day I would be, and kept marking me present.

I recognize it!
I hear it!
I am forever in the presence of it!

With no curfew and no more fences to mend, it is time to start hanging out with Love again.

The 2nd chance to get it right the first time, as soon as you begin to realize, "I Am Getting BETTER At Getting BETTER."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Thursday, June 02, 2011

"Trust and Fall"

When I first fell in Love, I scuffed my knees in an attempt to break my fall. And all I had to do was trust the reason why I was falling to begin with. With no coercion and zero persuasion, "Trust and Fall" was the only call that I chose not to make.

The scars that reveal themselves serve as a daily reminder that there is no need to break a fall that was not brought on by anything that wasn't supposed to happen in the first place.

Love is the presence that you know will catch the fall that you find yourself in and not the never ending drop that you are trying to avoid even when you first make the conscious decision to let yourself fall.

My knees have since healed and now I embrace the scars that will take me farther than breaking my initial fall ever could, ever would or ever will.

Perhaps age has taught me to be more aggressive and less resistant within my pursuit. Only I will know the answer to that, unless of course one should check my knees for newer and fresher scars that would tell the redundant story of Corey not giving in and not giving it his all, because he simply refused to "Trust and Fall."

For easier confirmation, I'll wear shorts.

This Summer,
Next Spring,
This Winter,
"Trust and Fall."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Wednesday, June 01, 2011

"When I First Fell In Love With You, I Fell In Love With, You"

"When I First Fell In Love With You, I Fell In Love With, You."

Nothing could ever steer me away from the Love that I HAD for you.

Nothing could ever steer me away from the Love that I still HAVE for you.

Everything that we have grown through, all that I have shown you, up till this day, even in this very special way.

"When I First Fell In Love With You, I Fell In Love With, You."

I publicly profess all that I have privately confessed. For the only way that Love exists is in the midst of Love's cleanliness.

Therefore, I bathe for the chance, to submit at Love's first glance. And to think that I used to fight, the very real possibility of Love at first sight.

How foolish I once was in an attempt to climb the ladder. Now wiser is the latter in my ascension to all that matters, Love.

"When I First Fell In Love With You, I Fell In Love With, You."

And I still do.

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

"The Source of My Strength"

I am thankful that the moments that could have taken my breath away, and ended my Life, were overridden by the breath that Jesus blew my way, to spare my Life.

In an act of preservation, to take what my Life once was, reshape and mold all for the sake of restoration.

How gratifying it is to come to know that dying was not an option when it very well could have been. But it was nothing that Corey did or said, for the reason had a bigger and deeper meaning that I have sought and continue to seek out as a way to continue down the contribution trail depositing seeds of Life wherever, with whatever my Life experiences have bestowed upon me.

Whether it is the subtle reminders or the blatant broadcasts, I forget not what I should lovingly remember for all of the days of my Life. The same Life that did not have to be, had it not been for GOD's Grace and Mercy.

All that I have is not in accordance to all that I have done. You get what you deserve, when you think that you have won. I keep pressing forward because I know that my work is not done, since all that I have is not in accordance to all that I have done.

The strength that I have is independent of any exercise regimen that gives me the perceived strength to lift me through the difficult times. For it is within those trying times that an exercise regimen is insulting to the very real and realized, not perceived strength of Jesus, that lifts me through and delivers me from.

The nucleus of my strength resides within my knees. Whenever I am feeling weak and need to replenish "The Source of My Strength," I can always find it on my knees, in a humbled state!

Glory Be, to G.O.D.

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Monday, May 23, 2011

"Whatever Happens"

The upside to the downside are the lessons learned that are garnered.

The downside to the upside are not adhering to those lessons learned that were garnered.

Foolishly repeating the same mistakes due to that comfortable bed commonly referred to as a rut, that we continuously find ourselves in. We make our way INTO them and are dumbfounded on how we should or need to get OUT of them. We look for answers that we are already in possession of. We answer questions with answers contrary to the ones that we are already in possession of. We cry foul when it is US that hit the ball foul to begin with. It wasn't the pitcher, all the pitcher did was what the pitcher was supposed to do, pitch the ball.

The onus is on the batter, you and me, to connect with the truth by way of hitting the ball and making the necessary progress in order for us to at least reach first base.

Irrespective of what Life, the pitcher, throws our way, we should be able to make the most out of our situations and put ourselves in scoring positions that would have us on track for VICTORY! But victory is not just in WINNING! No, VICTORY is in the participation of the game itself!

The determination of "Whatever Happens" should not be "left" in the hands that have no intentions on doing "right" by you. Said determination requires YOUR participation!

Victory is MINE because I am YOURS! Thank You Jesus!

Thank You for participating in my Life so that "Whatever Happens," I am more than prepared to learn from, adhere to, claim victory in the name of, do "right" by, not feel "left" out of, because "Whatever Happens," I choose to never let go of Your hand.

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

"Change In Your Situation"

In order to change your situation, you must first CREATE change in your situation. Some folk do not believe in reinventing the wheel. But, if you have been riding around your entire Life on a flat tire, then perhaps it is TIME, to reinvent the wheel.

Acceptance of less than is not your friend, contrary to popular subconscious belief! Consciously we would never settle for less than, yet here we are increasingly doing just that by way of the outer mind AND body experiences that we put ourselves through, all for the sake of....

We lend ourselves to things that never have or had any intentions on ever paying us back, even after we have more than picked up the slack. Our patience goes broke, the burdens anchor us down and before we know it, we find ourselves riding around on not only fumes, but a flat.

The "change" that we are seeking will not come by way of someone else's creation, but rather ONLY through the elation of our own motivation to CREATE "change" within our situation.

If you ever want your situation to change, then you must first CREATE "Change In Your Situation."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Monday, May 16, 2011

"Recognize Them As Such"

My accomplishments pale in direct comparison to the adversity that first gave birth to my accomplishments. Had it not been for the adversity, the labor pains of success might have otherwise been camouflaged as anything but, pain.

The purpose of the pain was not solely to inflict or thrust itself upon me, but to gauge my willingness to recognize it and be able to fight through it, yet simultaneously appreciate all that it has brought to my Life: good, bad and otherwise.
The silver lining never conceals itself. It is incumbent upon ourselves to identify the silver lining and what it represents by way of our experiences, directly attributing them to the overall process.

Blessings come in all shapes, sizes, colors and demographics. We must deploy our senses to pick up and receive them. But prior to, we must first "Recognize Them As Such."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Thursday, May 12, 2011

"I Got My Smile Back!"

From the onset, we are taught that attendance is a vitally important part of Life that just so happens to "show up" in every aspect of our lives.

It starts off with school, includes Church, goes on to college, includes Church, winds up at work, includes Church and is littered all throughout our existence: Our need to show up!

And along our journey's path, it behooves us to bring along some peripherals to help us out along the way.

Well, somewhere along the way, I inadvertently or intentionally, subconsciously or consciously made the self, ill-advised decision to abandon my Smile.

The one peripheral, accessory and much needed commodity that I needed was no longer within my possession and the succession of trials and tribulations would soon feed off of the one need that for whatever reason, was no longer existent.

But GLORY be to GOD Almighty!!!

Somewhere along my way, I FOUND my way thanks in ALL part to my GPS, my GODLY Positioning System!

I lost my way when I lost my Smile. But I found my way because I NEVER stopped being GOD's child.

I affirm that I have BEEN confirmed and the wounds from Life's battlefield are a testament to that fact. But even bigger than that is my presence in being MARKED present whenever attendance is or has been taken.

Your need to show up is not just a requirement, but first a prerequisite in order to BEGIN the requirement.

Bringing along those much needed, much ado about EVERYTHING peripherals in order to help out along the way will undoubtedly make a difference when and exactly where a difference needs to be made.

For no apparent reason, I Smile.

For all that I have been. Blessed through, I Smile.

And after a rather lengthy hiatus and many situations that were much ado about NOTHING, it Smiles me to say that, "I Got My Smile Back!"

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Monday, May 09, 2011

"Let Love Find Me!"

The harder that I try to Love, the greater the resistance to the Love that I am trying to demonstrate to and for the one that I Love.

But discouraged is not an adjective that I would employ to do the job that I already know it does not have the education nor the skillset in which to do.

What kind of performance review would discouragement actually garner outside of its discouraging disposition? Rhetorical, but food for thought nonetheless.

In the interim, I shall allow me to be me and to Love unconditionally, with a healthy respect of unselfishly discovering the infinite possibilities that exist within the realm of the same, with the only exception being that of the name, of the inevitable targeted recipient.

Therefore, I will continue to be the best that I can be, and "Let Love Find Me!"

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Thursday, May 05, 2011

"The Past!"

Although it is impossible to undue the past, the past does not have to continuously undue you.

I see the pain in your tear filled eyes, I feel the anguish that still torments you and I hear the sounds of the instrumental heartache that composes the soundtrack to your Life.

But I am here to tell you:
The days do get brighter,
You no longer have to be that fighter
Peace is just a Prayer away,
It is alright to receive Smiles your way
Exempt from the Love of GOD you are not,
Happiness is STILL Happy, even if that is all that you got.

One day the past will be just that, "The Past!" A faint memory of all that attempted to define you, but did nothing BUT, refine you.

You will become everything that the past never wanted you to be, all in the name of and for the sole purpose of, VICTORY!

Take a closer look around you. The mere fact that you are still here is proof that losing had no place within your repertoire, within your arsenal and within your existence.

The past doesn't even know or realize that it no longer has any relevance over your future, starting here and now, with your present.

You shall continue to win because with GOD, you have already won!

Although it is impossible to undue the past, the past does not have to continuously undue you.

Soon, the past will be just that, "The Past!"

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Monday, May 02, 2011

"For Your Purpose"

Doing what you want to do, going where you want to go and saying what you want to say is living within the purpose that you have identified and defined for yourself.

But have you ever similarly pondered the same outside of and excluding the "you" part of doing, going and saying?

Could you possibly fathom an existence that would remove "you" from the equation and reduce the "you" in your persuasion, in order to accomplish and achieve the things that are meant for "you," by way of the removal of "you" from ALL things pertaining to "you?"

Who's purpose are we meant to serve as we live out our Life's existence in an attempt to live "our" lives?

Should it not be about "us" since it is indeed "our" lives that we are living and starring in?

Have you ever watched a movie where the supporting cast upstaged the stars, thus making and paving the way for a better experience within the movie, the script and each of the scenes?

It is through the selfless role of supporting cast that we are first introduced to the next level and all of the potential contained within. You see they are abundantly aware of their role and its importance to the overall "picture."

So is Life, when we begin to accept our supporting role and acknowledge the same importance that our lives "serve" as we live out "our" lives in as selfless a capacity as possible, fathomable and doable.

We reap the benefits of the seeds sewn as we begin to sow additional seeds for others to bare witness to as an example of the purpose that we are to "serve" in "our" lives.

We begin to get IT, when we forfeit the "you" that would prevent "us" from getting the BIG "picture."

In my supporting role, I do not live my Life for "my" purpose, rather I live my Life "For Your Purpose."

Glory Be To GOD!

Always and forevermore.

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Thursday, April 21, 2011

"Love Compelled Me To"

No, I didn't have to do what I did and go where I "went,"
I didn't have to go "there,"
I wasn't brought "here,"
And no I wasn't "sent."

I followed my heart, lead by my intuition,
That whatsoever I feel in my heart,
I will act out in complete submission.

I will do whatever needs to be done, fulfilling the purpose within the plan and mitigating any deviations that might be out on the horizon.

I have tried it my way and since I am attempting it again, I concede that my initial attempt had entirely too much to do with me.

Therefore, I have removed the "me," flipped the "m" to a "w" that now includes and states "we."

I do not pretend to know what I do not know, but I am so compelled to go where I must grow.

GOD is efficient with respect to what I ultimately need, thus providing the food FOR the thought that shall continually feed, my soul for the sole purpose of making me a better me, by way of relinquishing "me" in lieu of "we."

"Love Compelled Me To" tell you,
By way of my physical presence,
That, I'm here!

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

"Love Me"

An ounce of doubt could never replace the pound of Love that this ton of emotions spills over for you.

What I see today, is what I felt on yesterday, which has me looking forward to tomorrow, knowing that you will be a part of it.

Stop reflecting on the past by embracing the future happiness, that forgot to remember the mistakes of before.

No need to knock, for I have intentionally left the door open for you to make your grand entrance to the corridor of my heart.

When I first said "YES," I knew that you were the "ONE."

I continually feel Blessed from both the Father AND the Son.

The Smile that you bestow upon me could never be replicated for another and what I have come to know about you, I Love the fact that you are a dedicated daughter, sister, future wife and Loving Mother.

The physical beauty needs no introduction because the internal beauty speaks for itself.

You make me Smile as if I've never Smiled before.

You make me want to open up each and every one of the previously closed doors.

You are the representation of my infatuation that has turned into, all of the Love that I have reserved, solely for you.

The way that you "Love Me" has everything to do, and is one of the very reasons, why I Love you too!

"Love Me"

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

"ALL, Not Some"

Over my Life I have been conditioned to fight for what I believe in, who I believe in and what is ultimately right in addition to the right thing in which to do.

Good, bad or otherwise, it is far too easy for us to fall back on what we know, what we "think" we know and what we are "used" to doing: good, bad and otherwise.

But Faith! That ALMIGHTY component and daily ingredient compels us to relinquish all of what we know, what we "think" we know and what we are "used" to doing in lieu of, Faith, the size of a mustard seed.

Stillness does not equate to weakness. Stillness is the window to GOD's strength. And you cannot admire it, if you are constantly moving, hence.

In recent times, I have caught myself "moving" and "responding" as opposed to "witnessing" and "admiring" the impeccable brilliance of my Loving Father!

I chastise my son in order to show him that there is only one...way in which to do the right thing.

But, I am not just a Father, for I am ALSO a son, that needs to be reminded from time to time, even in most recent times.

I Pray for,
I choose to,
Live and reside in Peace and Happiness.

Therefore, it is incumbent upon me, you and us to rise, stand, and let "GOD" fight our battles, "ALL, Not Some," good, bad and otherwise.

For we belong to "HIM," by way of "ALL, Not Some."

Love and My Mother are My Inspiration!
Love and My Mother are My Motivation!
Love and My Mother are My Celebration!
Love and My Mother are My Dedication!

All the Best, All the Time!

Smile and Love Always!
Corey A. Ford